If we all really listen to the voice deep down inside us, we know what we should be doing. We know our purpose in life.
Maybe you have a book to write or a song to sing. Maybe you are body builder, runner or swimmer, trapped in the body of a couch potato. Perhaps it is a list of little things such as, forgive someone, volunteer or take a trip. Perhaps you dare not tell anyone else, but you know there are things that you are here on this earth to do.
What is holding you back? What keeps you from accomplishing the things that you know deep down that you were born to do? Is it circumstances? Money? Time? The economy? Your family?
The only thing holding you back is……you.
“We all walk in the dark and each of us must learn
to turn on his or her own light.”
Perhaps it is time to hug your monster, face your gremlins and take a little more control. You know. Do the things that you fear, but you know you want/need to accomplish. In life, unless we’re prepared to take chances, we’re just fans in the bleachers. We never truly get in the game.
Paul Martinelli, one of my mentors often says that sometimes we have to jump off cliffs and build our wings on the way down.
What stops us? The fear of failure? The uncertainty? I believe that what holds us back is that part of our brain that we have no control over. That reflexive “fight or flight” system served our ancestors well by keeping them from danger keeps us from moving forward.
Our fear is 99% illusion. We concoct scary stories about the worst possible outcomes. In an effort to protect ourselves, we lay the template of the worst outcomes that we ever heard of, but if we are intellectually honest with ourselves, we know that those outcomes are not very likely.
“If you take risks, you may still fail. However, if you do not take risks, you will surely fail.
The greatest risk of all is to do nothing.”
Roberto C. Goizuet
We always have the option to create new stories filled with positive outcomes and results. Stop the pattern of irrational fear and do what is in our best interest.
In our modern life we need to learn to use a more the part of our brain that we have more control over. When we face our fears, we either succeed or we do not succeed, but regardless we will learn and gain confidence in our abilities. When you turn and face your gremlins, they can no longer chase you. Now that is freedom.
Phil is one of only one thousand leaders worldwide (representing nearly 100 countries) to be trained and certified by John C. Maxwell & his team, as part of the founder’s circle of coaches, speakers and teachers.
Phil works with organizations and individuals to increase sales, productivity and profitability by helping them improve their leadership, sales and customer service skills. He offers workshops, seminars, speaking, and coaching on delivering extraordinary customer service, leadership, and personal development.